Picky Eaters

Finding foods that are affordable, healthy, and wholesome for young children can be a daunting task for some parents. Mr. Jon shared the following tips on The Rhode Show.

Some children will eat anything that is put on their plate while others won’t eat anything that isn’t chicken or pasta… But remember, as a parent, your child’s nutrition doesn’t have to be and shouldn’t be frustrating.

Respect your child’s willingness (or lack thereof) to eat:

  • Never force your child to eat… EVER! Remember that if a child is hungry, he/she will eat. Similarly, never bribe a child to eat a certain food that you want them to eat. Meals should not be stressful for children or create a sense of anxiety. Serve small portions of food to avoid waste and power struggles

Keep a routine:

  • Be sure you serve meals at around the same time every day. Be sure you eat in the same place every day – meals should be served at the kitchen or dining room table and not in the living room on the floor in front of the TV! Be sure you eat with your child – your child should not have to eat in isolation because you are too busy doing something else. In between meals and snacks, offer water rather than milk or juice to drink. Juices may fill your child up and decrease their appetite for mealtime.

Be patient:

  • If you are beginning to offer new foods, remember that it may take several times for children to acquire a taste for them. Offer foods in small amounts, and do not make your child feel badly for not eating the food. Draw as little attention to the matter as possible. Encourage your child to discuss the food’s color, shape, texture, and smell – these are interesting topics for young children to discuss. Serve new foods alongside foods that are your child’s favorites.

Keep it fun:

  • Keep foods fun by cutting them in fun shapes, serving them with dip, and arranging them creatively on a plate. Include your child in meal preparation and grocery trips so they are more interested in the foods you want them to eat.

Teach your kids about nutrition:

  • Children must know why eating healthy food is important. And no, saying, “You have to eat your dinner so you can grow big and strong,” doesn’t count! Teach your child about the food groups, sort pictures of food into the different food groups, organize your refrigerator into food groups, etc. Visit choosemyplate.gov for more ideas!

Visit your local farm:

  • Know your foods and know your local farmer! Visit your local farm so your child can learn about where and how foods are grown. This will peak your child’s interest in eating healthy foods grown by your local farmer!

Last but certainly not least, don’t stress over your child’s eating habits! Over time, they will learn to appreciate and enjoy the tastes of a variety of different foods, as long as you are a good role model!


Jonathan Stott has been a part of The Children’s Workshop family since 2008. He is now a Teacher’s Assistant in the Pre-K classroom at our Cranston school. He was born and raised in Lincoln, RI and is an avid sports fan. He has been a volunteer for the Boys and Girls Club in Lincoln since 2010. He is currently working toward his degree in Communications from Providence College.